Embarking on a solo journey can be one of the most liberating and enriching experiences in life. However, for many travelers, the prospect of exploring new destinations alone can also be daunting, especially when it comes to making connections with others along the way. Fortunately, solo travel doesn’t mean you have to be alone the entire time. With the right approach and mindset, you can forge meaningful friendships that enhance your travel experience. Here are some tips to help you master the art of making friends while solo traveling
1. Plan Your Trip Wisely
When planning your trip, choose a popular route that many travelers take, such as the banana pancake trail through Southeast Asia. Starting in Bangkok, traveling north, crossing the border into Laos, and then exploring Vietnam from north to south or vice versa ensures that you’ll meet plenty of fellow travelers. You may even end up traveling with a group for a few weeks. Especially starting your trip in Bangkok is ideal, as it’s considered a hotspot for backpackers. You’ll meet numerous like-minded travelers who are embarking on their biggest adventure.
2. Don’t Overplan
While I recommend having a basic plan for your first solo travel adventure, it’s wise to book only 2-3 days in advance. This allows flexibility to adapt your plans as needed. For instance, if you meet a great group of people and wish to continue traveling together, you can easily do so. It also provides the option to alter your itinerary and skip destinations that other travelers haven’t recommended.
3. Stay in Social Accommodations
Hostels are perfect for meeting other travelers. Start conversations in the common area or with your roommates in the dorm. If you prefer not to stay in a hostel, opt for a cheap hotel nearby and hang out at hostels for the social aspect. Private rooms in hostels are also a great option for those who prefer more privacy.
4. Sign Up for Group Activities
Participate in hostel group activities or book tours through your hostel. This is an excellent way to meet people staying at the same place and gives you opportunities to hang out with them on other days as well. Utilize hostel group chat apps like Hostelworld to connect with fellow travelers.
5. Be Open-Minded on Public Transport
Take advantage of the time you spend on buses and trains to get to know other travelers. Strike up conversations and exchange contact information. Making friends while traveling from one place to another ensures you have someone to explore the new destination with.
While it’s important to be open to making new friends, prioritize your safety when interacting with strangers, especially in unfamiliar environments. Trust your instincts, meet in public places, and inform someone of your plans when meeting someone new.
If you’re still unsure about solo travel, consider signing up for a group trip first. These trips are a great way to meet other travelers and ease into solo travel.
Remember, others are likely in the same position as you and will appreciate your initiative in starting a conversation. Enjoy your travels, and feel free to reach out if you have further questions!
